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Out Cold (2001)
IMDB rating: 5.50
Plot: Animal House meets Casablanca in this outrageous snowboarding comedy. Rick Rambis and his friends are having the time of their lives on Bull Mountain until the legendary Papa Muntz’ son decides to sell the mountain to sleazy land developer John Majors, having the staff fired and turning Bull Mountain into ‘Yuppieville’.
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Directors: Malloy Brendan
Actors: London Jason,Majors Lee,Garson Willie,Galifianakis Zach,Koechner David,Alexander Flex,Denman David,Hamilton Derek,Lennon Thomas,Richards Todd,Arquette Lewis,Boyce Rob ‘Sluggo’,Comedy,Sport,
Why do I feel like this after being gay raped?
I am a 16 year old teenage boy who was raped by a man when I was 13. I remember that night very clearly and feel more confused then ever. I was not penetrated but forced with oral sexual acts. The next morning was the coldest morning of my life. I thought I had got over this incident but have only recently discovered I don’t know how I feel about it anymore and feel it was my fault. Ever since this incident I have basically stayed away from teenager boys and men because I’m scared. I have only just noticed this incident still bothers me. I feel like it was not rape in a way although I said no!. What do I do? No one knows about this incidnt but I’ve relised it’s killing me.
You should report this issue to the police.
By the way, that’s a trauma you’re experiencing currently, I suggest you consult a therapist.
Lil Tiger Meows | Feb 02, 2010
Heal yourself by realizing that you’re okay… did you like it and is that why you feel guilty because you think that enjoying it means you’re gay… or did you hate it and did it make you hate men…
Either way you are going to be fine and need to love yourself and accept ;yourself no matter what happened. Its okay to have enjoyed it or hated it… just accept what you feel and then tell yourself that you’re going to move on now and enjoy your life.
You’re not alone. Millions … billions of boys have been raped throughout history. Girls too. But life goes on. We have to shrug our shoulders and choose to be happy if we want to heal. I suspect youdo or you wouldn’t have written this question.
Think of how beautiful it is to be alive. Lots of people younger than you were murdered or in an accident. You owe it to yhourself to choose to be happy. Its a choice and you have the freedom to choose whether you want to dwell on the past and be confused or focus on the present and future and be happy.
Queen of Sheba | Feb 02, 2010
gay raped?
-=Deva=- | Feb 02, 2010
That is child abuse and wrong on so many levels.If you feel comfortable u should tell ur parents or a close friend and family member. You need to get over this or it is going to ruin potential relationships in the future.
Goodluck
T | Feb 02, 2010
oh my god , don’t tell me about it its extremlly sad , u should know that its not your fault in any way , and that guy is criminal and u r the innocent victome here i know u were not ablr to tell your parents at the time but at least tell the cops to avoid another victims be in similar situation
lovely gay 1990 | Feb 02, 2010
You feel like that because you don’t like to suck c*ck
Violent Cucumber | Feb 02, 2010
Go see a shrink.
kitty | Feb 02, 2010
Legend
You have been through a lot, and many people will assume that this is a small issue when it isnt. This incident may have affected you psychologically in many ways. like you have mentioned you have been staying away from boys and men these last couple a years. All of us have had barriers or obstacles that have pressured us for days, months, weeks, and even years depending on the magnitude of the situation. But i am a strong believer that the human mind has the strongest ability to heal as compared to the physical being. You need to involve yourself in more meaningful activities that can improve or upgrade you significantly, and some of these activities has to have other people involved with you as well to focus particularly on the social aspect of your life. You need to speak to the male population more as not all men are like this one guy u met that horrible night. You need to be very active in everything that you do, and strengthen yourself, mentally and physically. In other words, study hard and become someone important, and be stronger, do pushups pullups go to gym. When you strengthen yourself you will see yourself becoming more and more confident slowly but surely. The wounds will surely heal.
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Clive G | Feb 02, 2010
It’s okay, mate, to feel confused about what happened to you. But, it was NOT your fault… That is the guilt feelings playing in and those kinds of feelings are often not logical. You were involved in an act which was wrong and so therefore you feel as though you’ve done something wrong. But you were not at fault here, okay?
You don’t have to have penetration to be or feel raped. The way I see it is that the minute you say no, consent has ended. If they persist that is rape.
You do need to talk to someone about this though cos it’s going to do things with your head that you will need help to go through. There’s nothing wrong with this. You’ve made a great step in asking us for help here. That was very brave of you to do so cos I don’t know if I would have done that if it were me.
It is natural to feel scared about what happened and the feelings you’re getting. But you need to speak to someone who can help you through this. Do a bit of searching in your phone book and online and there will be avenues for you to use. You are not alone and the people out there to help you will make you feel okay.
I just hope we’ve given you some positive answers to this.
Robert | Feb 02, 2010
……. then the WII
